Embrace the glorious mess you are!

College Days were GOLDEN DAYS The moment when I say I miss college, it's not only about the freedom and kind of atmosphere we had but also about the people we had in our surroundings. Other than close friends, everyone else too was generous, helpful or at least ready to hear you out. I think age and experience matters a lot. When you surround yourself with people of your age group, the equation is more likely to be fine. Exceptions are always there. However, I feel when a much older person with 10-15 years of experience meets you, they aren’t generous enough to greet you like an individual independent being. Again, exceptions are there. College days were GOLDEN DAYS. It has been two years of not looking back and here I am ready to share with you all the world of mean people. I have been to too many places in these two years. A good amount of people came in my life and went away. Nevertheless, many of them were obsessed or self-centered so to say. Kind and polite o...

Numb. Have you ever felt that numb sensation while sitting, working or eating? It takes you to great depth and you start having all the doubts that exist in this world. You start having doubts on yourself. You feel inferior and insecure of God knows what. Even when people are at fault, you adamantly take it on yourself. Are you able to relate? Even after accepting that you are the queen of your thoughts and you respect yourself, this shit happens. In a way, it is helpful and important. It takes you in a world where you can think and ponder about the surroundings. You evolve and come out with a clear picture in your head. Then onwards, you start your journey again, with a bang! Being a positive person that I am, let us stop talking about the good effects of this numbness because what I really want to discuss is that this numbness, silence, aloofness, and calmness is weird. People take it as a sign of sickness or may be anger, cold war, discontentment or dissatisfaction with things ...

Salute to the Eternal Love of a Mother and Daughter! Despite giving all the love and respect, how sad it is! The plight of a daughter when she had to request her parents to gift a little more in order to sustain the dignity of her " maayaka ". It is sad to know that daughters are no more dutiful to their parents after marriage. They no longer can support them in all directions of life. How terrible is the feeling when our parents ask us to concentrate on In-laws more. It is sad to see that no matter how much a mother-in-law is devoted to accept her son-in-law as a son, but society fails him to return her back the same feels . How society does not allow one to take care of each other. It is sad to know that how society has a fixed mindset and an ultra-fixed image of a son-in-law which restrain good people to act like a son. And one who intentionally does follow this society, is a poor chap according to me. I pity on those who takes all from that mis...

Life is not easy these days. As much as the concept of birth and death is so natural, the complications of it comes handy. Still, there are some ways to handle the chaos like a boss. There are still some simple mantras that can bring that peaceful smile back in minutes. There are still some rules which guarantee, happiness and mental peace. Let me help you if you are suffering from chronic diseases like tensions, panic, mental disturbance or confusions. Rule No 1. Never ever underestimate the power within you. Doesn't matter the incapability of doing a work, you still should have confidence that if not this, I am made for something else. Rule No 2. You should get this right in your head that everything happens for a reason. Try to smile in hurdles with this thought. Try to believe that He is looking at you 24x7. He is working for you. Rule No 3. Believe in HIM. What you receive is His blessings and What you lost is your innocence. Try to have faith that if something i...

Hi Everyone, Today, after a long time, I have written a piece of poetry in-flowing my thoughts at this particular point of time. The poem cum-open-letter is aimed to make you realize the importance of your surroundings and people. This letter highly intended to motivate you to make more and more time for yourself! To Inspire you to balance things! I hope, that the message in my words reaches your heart and mind and you start appreciating every single thing around you and start creating time to Live, Live All! HERE I GO -- It is easy to get lost in work For me, to be connected is Strong. It is easy to text, "I am Busy" For me, Listening carefully and replying is Different! It is easy to reply, "OK", "HMM", For me, Answering what I felt is Strength! It is easy to cut down Relations and Social Handles, For me, telling about yourself is Unique. It is easy to get lost in Work, For me, managing all is Power. It is easy to indulge in th...

In this chaotic world of busy people, some are using this word so often, even the essence of the word has lost. Today, I will be telling how people use this bomb for their mean purposes - Here is why people use it - # When they don't want to talk with you being some irritating creatures. # When they don't want to meet you up. # When they love you but still not able to figure out ways to meet you. # When they feel talking, texting, meeting is not that important. You know, Priorities. # When they are ignoring you on your face. # When they are trying to show off their daily BUSY schedules. #  When they are trying to gain some sympathy of their so-much-busy cum restricted/limited routine. (pun intended). # When they are so free, they don't want to show it. I have came across with these types of people since adulthood. I have seen my people using these reasons for others, at times for me too. Well, they will soon realize the action-reaction rule of Karma...

I am single and no one can tell better, the delights and flaws of being single since I was open to taking relationships. Well, this was my choice. I don’t regret and I don’t blame it on others. I choose to be this way. So, today I am gonna share How I felt throughout? Everyone you meet every single time will ask how you are st ill single. But how? Didn’t you get anyone? Don’t you like anyone in your whole life? This is difficult but there comes a stage when you are over it. People then ask, “Hey! You have a pretty face, why aren’t you committed?” As if only a face is enough. All those who poke you now and then are bad, really sad and want some spark via you. So, better ignore and carry on with your un-partnered life. Here are the Pros of Being Single # There is no one in your life who will become important than your parents at some point in your life. You can live life easily for now. # There is no one who will suggest you eat less and gym more. #...