Can you relate to this word - *Busy* or just Tolerating for the Sake of Being Understanding?

In this chaotic world of busy people, some are using this word so often, even the essence of the word has lost. Today, I will be telling how people use this bomb for their mean purposes -

Here is why people use it -

# When they don't want to talk with you being some irritating creatures.

# When they don't want to meet you up.

# When they love you but still not able to figure out ways to meet you.

# When they feel talking, texting, meeting is not that important. You know, Priorities.

# When they are ignoring you on your face.

# When they are trying to show off their daily BUSY schedules.

# When they are trying to gain some sympathy of their so-much-busy cum restricted/limited routine. (pun intended).

# When they are so free, they don't want to show it.

I have came across with these types of people since adulthood. I have seen my people using these reasons for others, at times for me too. Well, they will soon realize the action-reaction rule of Karma.

What if you refuse to understand ?

We cannot ask someone to meet up, call up, text up or even remember us. We have to take their things in our head because if we will make our demands so clear, we will end up being hurt, ignored or lectured. There is no option left with us other than understanding someone's busy schedule because if we will not -

# Then we are immature.

# We are not facing the same situation they are facing.

# We are so idle that we end up messing up other's life.

# We are overdoing things and we need to chill.

# We are cranky and we rotate around one thing only.

# We are too obsessed with them.

# We are NOT UNDERSTANDING.

How to get DONE with this Bullshit!

While some are genuinely busy, some just make you feel so. I don't have any personal issues with the word but with the people who make small things look bigger.

Well, you really don't have an option because if you are trying to be understanding with a person, he/she must be a close one. But, just to get over with this bad feeling, here are some ways you can boost yourself up-

You can simply reverse the nature. After-all, in the end, your happiness matters the most. So, just to make yourself happy, do what you want to with them or without them doesn't matter.

Do not make yourself available 24x7. Human nature it is. People take you for granted.

Give yourself a knock of people's priority. They make a list and they adhere to it. Everyone is responsible for their own happiness and not yours. They will fight with the situations only and only when they will have a reason to it. They will choose to break rules only when they feel like doing so. You cannot make them do it.

So, just leave things on time, even people on time. If you really deserve their time, you will get it without any efforts. Fight for your happiness and not for people.

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