It is Sad to Learn that How Son-in-Law and Daughter-in-Law can never become A Son or A Daughter!

Salute to the Eternal Love of a Mother and Daughter!

Despite giving all the love and respect, how sad it is! The plight of a daughter when she had to request her parents to gift a little more in order to sustain the dignity of her "maayaka".

It is sad to know that daughters are no more dutiful to their parents after marriage. They no longer can support them in all directions of life. How terrible is the feeling when our parents ask us to concentrate on In-laws more.

It is sad to see that no matter how much a mother-in-law is devoted to accept her son-in-law as a son, but society fails him to return her back the same feels. How society does not allow one to take care of each other.

It is sad to know that how society has a fixed mindset and an ultra-fixed image of a son-in-law which restrain good people to act like a son. And one who intentionally does follow this society, is a poor chap according to me.

I pity on those who takes all from that miserable mother of a daughter, but never feel the same concern. I feel angry at those who ask their wives to give her all to his parents but is not ready to give a little to her's.

I feel awful, especially for parents with no son on their lap. I feel empty for them. It is the sad reality of this society that parents of an only daughter are left with nothing even after giving above their affiliations.

This post is not an anti-son-in-law post, but it is a heartfelt reaction after having a strong reality check. It is not about a son-in-law only. The same situation is for the opposite gender. Even daughters cannot completely devote themselves to their mother-in-law. But there is a reason behind it. They are born with a soft heart. They are so much into their parents that she feels rebellious on the idea that if nobody is concerned for my guardians, why would I surrender myself completely to those who still will always be on their son's side??

Well, there are families, who are living with harmony and love for each other due to a loving and devoted daughter-in-law who does not believes in so called "ghar todne wali bahu", but let me ask you, have you ever seen a parent living a stress free life with a son-in-law hovering over their heads?? Have you ever seen a mother of a daughter chilling with sons-in-law with a free soul? Have you ever seen a son-in-law in such devotion that people mistook him as their biological sons???? Well, this definitely happens with a girl when her mother-in-law proudly introduces her daughter-in-law as her daughter, but in reality she feels bad when the daughter is extra-concerned for her biological parents.

Ask a daughter how she feels when she is restrained to execute her duties towards her parents? Ask her, how helpless, she feels, when her parents feel bad to ask for her help. I oppose this society; I ask you, why a parent of a girl cannot expect help, be it emotionally or financially from her daughter? This is not the case with sons, right.?! Why they feel a hole in their self-respect after taking help from their daughters?, forget son-in-law.

This is because the not-biological son is dutiful to his biological parents only! Aaah! What an irony! Everyone expects a girl to sacrifice her soul in the service of her husband's home and not to the ones who gave her birth and pampered her with love!!

Sadly, such is the life of a woman. She suffers as a daughter, as a daughter-in-law and even as a mother of a daughter.

IF THE EMOTION AND MESSAGE BEHIND THIS POST GOES RIGHT INTO THE HEAD OF AT LEAST ONE SON, I WILL BE MORE THAN HAPPY!

Thank you for your valuable time.

No offense to anyone

Regards and Love

Supriya